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older... but new to womanhood

TG (46) looking for Male Chicago, Illinois, United States

I've been transitioning and living full-time as a woman since January 2nd, 2014 (still gettin' the hang of it). I have been (more or less) single since a divorce in late 2010... but I think I'm ready to jump back into the dating pool (but would prefer a few close intimate friends... or one very special intimate friend). I'm open to the friendships I form here to evolve into something more.


I'm a southern transplant, lived most of my adult life in New Orleans (originally from a tiny town called St. Francisville)... but have lived all over the south from places as varied as North Carolina to Alabama (but mostly Louisiana). In my traveling days I visited Mexico, Belgium, France, Netherlands, Czech Republic, Hungary, Russia, Thailand and Canada.


I used to have a very active life... but now, I live very simply (rarely travel, watch alot of movies and tv).


Some of my favorite shows are: DOCTOR WHO, THE WALKING DEAD, BIG BANG THEORY, OUTLANDER, NURSE JACKIE, MAD MEN, INSIDE AMY SCHUMER, PENNY DREADFUL, IN THE FLESH, RONAN FARROW DAILY, 2 BROKE GIRLS, FAMILY GUY, WORKAHOLICS, SHAMELESS, BATES MOTEL, MASTERS OF SEX, ADVENTURE TIME, WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?, HANNIBAL, TURN, TOSH.0... and I'm really looking forward to STAR WARS REBELS.


I do enjoy walking... and Chicago is an easy city to walk in. It would be nice to walk with someone from time to time.


:-)

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My Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?In my younger days when I was living as a gay male, I wasn't opposed to bathhouses... but I'm at a different phase of life now.
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?I think an ex and I once did it on the beach, standing... wrapped in a blanket (it was chilly) while heavy traffic was all around. But that was very out of the ordinary!

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildAverage
Height5' 6" (168 cm)
Eye ColorGreen
Hair ColorDark blonde
Hair LengthNeck length
Facial HairShaved
Best featureEyes
Body ArtVisible tattoo
Bra size36 / 80
Cup sizeA
My attractiveness:Average

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Annual incomeup to $25,000
Job Titlesemi-retired visual artist who consults

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness
My perfect matchMy young man will have to be open-minded, understanding (of my unique situation) and experimental.


I'm fairly open to who I might match with. As long as we can find things to talk about or if there's sexual/romantic chemistry, the best part of a relationship is figuring out ways to relate.


Don't be shy. Feel free to write/ask anything.


But I tell ya, in the relatively short time I've been a member of dating sites, I've been contacted by an alarming number of men who have quickly proven themselves to be flaky, swindlers or jerks. So... step it up, guys.
Our first dateCoffee? Dinner? Movie? A walk so we can chat?

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Group sex no swapping
Dirty talkNo thanks

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isNot my thing
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":I don't think I could get into anything TOO smelly. LOL But I'm relatively open to most vanilla stuff... and I actually rather enjoy being the person exploring/training my man's hole (with my hands or toys).